Why won't he change when he says he will?

I have been with my boyfriend for like two years now. He’s a great guy, he is loving, always does everything for me, cares for me, and I really truely believe he has never cheated on me, I mean either that or he’s REALLY good with his words. But…he left to go back to school recently and stopped calling me, no texts no nothin. He called me this ONE time but that was late as hell like 3 in the morning or somethin. I text him telling him that maybe we should break up…or at least take a break and THEN I got a call from him saying we cant break up baby I’m sorry your right, I should call you and I’m going to do that. I know he has school and lots of work and I know he has friends and a life. But why can’t I just get a call at least before he goes to sleep on the weekends at least when he shouldn’t have much or any work to do and when he should be done hangin with his friends? It makes me feel horrible because I feel like I will never meet another guy in this world who makes me feel the way he does but it’s like he doesnt care like he says he does, such loving things he tells me but then this happens and I dont know what the hell to believe…it hurts horribly…and he didnt change at all after he told me he would. I really dont want to bug him about it anymore. I know he is only 19 and still a young boy whose friends are still the most important thing to him, but does that really mean that I have to be left with nothing? WHAT WOULD YOU DO if you loved someone more than anything, if it felt like there was nobody else in the world for you but that person seemed to lose interest in you…I feel so trapped.

Answer #1

I dont mean to judge but it seems like your boyfriend is feeding you a crock of sh.t. surprise visit that will answer your questions.

Answer #2

to be completely honest I feel the same way you do with my boyfriend. I know he is at school but if there is any way you guys can meet up to talk or at least talk on the phone you need to figure out whats going on and what is best for you two. you need to tell him exactly what you just wrote. say how you feel and that you understand hes busy at school but that he shouldnt just forget about you completely. once you talk to him and see how he feels then you need to figure out what to do from there. im sure he is just super busy… but if I was away from my boyfriend I would call him ever morning and night at least, and I have a feeling you would do the same. just talk to him and see how he feels about the situation and from there figure out what you need to do. whether its breaking up, taking a break, or staying together. whatever happens I wish you the best of luck

Answer #3

if he loves you,or at least likes you a lot why cant he at least text? it sounds shady to me.I know you love him and think his a great guy,and he might be but you have bigs problems with him,1 his a man,2 your not there.I think to be on the safe side you guys should take a breake because he sounds just as confused as you are.plus that will wake him up and let him know not to take your love fo granted…p.s. sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go.I know its hard but itll be even harder to find out his not faithful.

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