Why won't he label us a couple?

Ok I’ve known this guy, I’ll name him V., for 4 years. and we are really close. I tell him every thing and I mean everything. we dated for half a year and then his ex got in his mind and took him over. he dumped me and dated her. I didn’t want to let him go, he cheated on her and another girl he dated with me. I had cheated on a guy I thought I could use as a rebound but it failed. I know I’m a bad person but I love this guy. he say’s he loves me and he’s not looking for any other girls.and I’m not looking ether. I just want to know why he won’t label us together. he still tries to hide that we do things together.

Answer #1

He doesn’t want to have an actual relationship with you. He only wants the fringe benefits. That way he can have you there for him when ever he needs you and do whatever he wants to do with anyone else.

Don’t wait for him, he is not Mr. Right.

Answer #2

He is not ready for a commitment with you. Making it official means that he no longer is available or that he is still looking for someone else.

My advise is to get the answer from him straightly. If he denies it, then he has to give you a sound reason. But if the reason is not enough to convince you, let him go. You deserve better.

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