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I don't want to throw out our relationship

Ohh…my…gosh… Okay well about 10min ago I was talking to my [[boyfriend]] & well he was telling me about this girl rite & well 4 the 1st time ever I didn’t get jealous!!& den my friend johnny texts me & I tell him what it said && he gets all mad [[he didn’t want to admit it]]but I knew he was & he’s like hey I’ll talk 2 you in an hour && I’m like ??? So I get upset & hang up & I mean we’ve been dating 4 a year & 2months & lately we’ve just been drifting from each other we harely talk or you know I mean like wats going on is he losing intrest in me or what?I’m really confused I mean god knows I would die if I breakup with him but I don’t want him wasting his precious time on me when he could be with so many other girls & I mean all I’ve got to lose is all I’ve got..which is him..I love him I really do & I want to spend the rest of my life with him & I tought he wanted that too.so what can I possibly do to fix this?damn I wish it were easier like just ger super glue & glue it all back togther but that’s not possible ugh..so someone please help me please…=( I would really appreciate it!just keep in mind that I don’t [[lust][ him I LOVE him with all my heart & his the best thing that’s ever happend to me & I really don’t want to just throw away one year of this relationship away…

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Answer #1

hey, it sounds like YOU have lost intrest maybe you need to do some thing special together to bring back the spark… a relationship always needs work and you are always learning somthing new so go with it…have a date night do something different …you always will lose interest if every day repeats itself … :)

Answer #2

how many times did you two fu have you did something new like sucked, or fued in a differnt way that might be it he might just be bored do something su** some

Answer #3

I’m in the same boat as you I’ve even been dating the same amount of time.. maybe y’all just need to talk through things thats what me and my boyfriend keep doing.. and we fight a lot but we always make up… just try talking to him and if that doesnt work the only thing thats really left is just trying to get over it… You could always try what the others are saying and try sumthing new together something that either y’all both like but dont do often or something that neither of y’all have ever done before… try to recreat the spark.. it may work or it may not.. but if y’all both love each other as much as you say y’all do then it should it work .. good luck babe… I hope everything works out for you

Answer #4

I threw away a one and a half year relationship away. If you haven’t gotten into at least 5 serious relationships, don’t settle now. It may seem like the end of the world at some point but if you guys are really falling apart, then

a) you can talk to him about this and find more time to spend together. or b) accept that it’s over between you two & be happy about new possibilities

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