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I want to put a title on our relationship

so I’m kinda dating this guy but we don’t really have a title, I always wanted to ask him what we are but I never really built up the courage to do so. we have been “hooking up” since like December 2007 we didn’t really start to get feelings for each other until the summer, we talked about dating in the summer and a little bit during the fall but we haven’t really recently, we made a promise to not “hook up” with other people but its not the same. The only problem is we both go to school in two different states where from the same town but we don’t see each other unless where on break so we only get to see each other like once a month or in the summer. That’s why I kinda want to be in a relationship with him when we are home and when we are at school I want to be in a open relationship but I don’t know how to bring it up. Oh ya one more thing hes my sisters age and graduated with my sister so if we ever did put a title on our relationship I wouldn’t know how to bring it up to my sister

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Answer #1

What you have is nothing more than a friends with benefits, and if thats not the title you were looking for then I suggest you stop having sex with him. Thats why you NEVER sleep with someone your not in a commited relationship with. Unless you are just looking for sex with no strings. Friends with benefits frequently functions to service the physical needs of boys while overlooking the emotional needs of girls. Women are pretty much wired to form emotional attachments to men they are intimate with. That’s why having friends with benefits can get confusing. >>You feel attached to him, expect him to feel the same about you and so you want him to demonstrate some caring, certainly by not being overly affectionate with other girls. But he won’t even recognize a relationship.

Answer #2

“distant lovers” by lil boosie check youtube.

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