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Why doesn't he want to have a public relationship?

So I have kinda been seeing one of my ex’s for the past week, he comes over everyday after school and we kiss and cuddle and watch tv and generally just act like boyfriend and girlfriend. But then at school he acts like were just friends. He says that he just doesn’t wanna get more sh1t from people for being with someone. But I’m not the type of girl who has secret relationships and sh1t like that. I want to be with him but not like this. Should I end things?

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Answer #1

Talk him about it I dated a guy who told EVERYBODY about me we broke and I dated a guy who said the same thing your bfs saying,I couldnt stand it and after I talked to him about it he still didnt care so I broke up with him.

Answer #2

Well talk to him and let him know that you do not like what he is doing, and what he is making out of this relationship. Meaby he is the type of pearson at school that they make a big fuss about, and sometimes that can be stressing. Meaby he dosen’t want the whole noises, and the thingys everybody else makes when they find out theres a couple in school. Or he could be playing you. But still talk to him, express your filings to him and also let him express his. not into you have heard evey part of the story you should break up with him.

Answer #3

It’s all up to you. My boyfriend and I had an “on the down low” relationship for about the first year cause he got into a lot of trouble with the law and it started a lot of drama at the highschool so in turn we just decided to keep it on the downlow so I didn’t have to deal with the stupid immature crap. For me personally im glad we started off that way cause I genuinely doubt we’d have lasted this long without doing so. But you have to make sure he isn’t just playing you, and being with other girls on the side. I got lucky with my boyfriend.

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