Why doesnt my mom love me any more?

I have ok grades (1 F and the rest are C’s or B’s) She grounds me almost every week I never get to be with friends She says shes going to hit me and stuff like that She calls me lazy and stupid She reads my texts online Shes always tells my dad to take me away with him She doesnt want me but then she tells me she loves me Me and her are always yelling. Its like im not even wanted at home. Plus I never get to see my dad or friends. Shes says she doesnt even want to come home and all she wants to do is stay at work. I just want to run away or just go live with one of my friends but yet I dont want to risk going to juvy. I’ve thought about killing my self but there would be no point. I dont know what to do anymore… please help me

Answer #1

well because she is insane report her to social services

Answer #2

You have to understand that maybe she has other issues. Ofcourse she loves you shes your mom. But if you are feeling like this remember that Jesus loves you.

You were not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book. Psalm 139:15-16

I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live. Acts 17:26

You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14

I knit you together in your mother’s womb. Psalm 139:13

Answer #3

@ brenda26 Shut up.. She is obviously a bad mom. Mom’s should NOT do this at all.. Sit her down and talk to her. Maybe talk to your dad about it. Try to get therapy together.. Try to talk to an older adult that you trust about this problem.. They won’t just take you away from your mom so you don’t have to worry about that. they normally just try to fix things.

Answer #4

Welcome to Fun Advice!

It sounds like your mom and dad are separated.

I tend to think that your mother isn’t too happy with her circumstances. I think that she really loves you but that subconsciously you, as you are growing older, cause her to realize that she isn’t getting any younger.

Try always being positive when around her. Don’t argue with her. Help her around the house as much as possible. When she’s getting ready to go out or to work, tell her how nice she looks. Praises can work wonders.

Answer #5

I think that there is something else. Are you sure that you are not doing something else?

Have you tried talking with your dad about it and telling him how you are feeling about this? Meaby your mom is stressed. So meaby going with your dad and giving your mom time will help, and if she is really treating you like this for no reason then meaby she will learn to apriciate you once your gone.

Has the divorse just happen? If yes then it could be something around that.

She also may be having a lot on her plate.

Answer #6

your mother must be going threw a lot of stress and isnt happy with her life, if you respect her and you dont purposely act out at home then I would say she is taking her disapointments out on you.. try showing her that you love her and that things will be okay, tell her that we are all we have and that we should treat each other how we should.. only a few more years and you will be out, just get good grades and you will get far in life instead of staying in her basement.. your mom seems like she thinks her world is deteriating even you and your grades. focus on the future and how you will get out, if you have no choice and it doesnt get any better, life isnt easy and you dont deserve this but its a battle we all must face so dont even think about killing your self because life is to beautiful to waste, especially because of your mother, if she doesnt show you the love and support you need, later in life I assure you, you will. :) good luck and someday things will fall into place sooner or later..

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