Does race really matter in a relationship?

Ok so I want to know what everyone else thinks about this. Does race really matter in s relationship? I mean if two people truly love each other then it shouldn’t matter if they are different races. Like I am white and I have been in a relationship with a black boy that I really loved but my mom found out and made me break up with him or she was going to kick me out of our house. I was so hurt because I loved him so much and I know he loved me to. We still want to be together but my mom would never let us be together so I just don’t know what to do:( I am 15 by btw if that makes a difference and I’m a girl

Answer #1

I dont think race (or color, religion, culture, or gender for that matter) is basis for a relationship. if you love someone, you love someone. that’s it. not because they’re the same race as you.

Answer #2

I’ve had black and asian girlfriends…

and to be honest if there 2 birds in a pub its the black/asian girl ill wanna talk to ;)

Answer #3

no your moms is wrong mamaz’ there’s nothing wrong with going out with a black,white,mexican,or asian man.If you truly love somebody all that other stuff shouldnt matter.Like ok im mixed with white,black, & indian all equal 50% each.And I’ve been with a mexican,white black, tungin/saomoan dude, and their really cool you know.when we hung out yeah we had some stares but we didnt care we laughed because we didnt care if our skin didnt match(wasnt the same color)! so honestly if you guys really love each other dont let your mom, are nobody else get in the way of yah’ll true love really!

Answer #4

your mother maybe worried that you’ll have bad influence from a Black American. I don’t mean that they are bad race, but maybe your mom read a bad news about black americans or had bad experience with them before. Then it comes to this: Mixed culture infant. maybe your mom is not up for interracial baby

Answer #5

color dont matter. if you love someone then who gives a damn waht others think. I dont have experience in waht your going threw but I know love and I would hate if someone tried to end a relationship just cause of race

Answer #6

Love doesn’t have a colour, any race should be allowed to date any race they’d like to without being questioned or lectured about it. Sorry to hear what you’re going through.

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