Would you consider me shallow because looks in a relationship matter to me?

It’s not the main factor. I find that your always attracted to someone your with. Your never with someone that your not. Personality & ect. matters to me also.

Consider the cliche: Love at first sight.

There’s something subliminal/subconscious at work in that regard.

i would say that, if someone came along with a great personality and amazingly gentle and you refuse him if he wasnt good looking. whether we admit it or not, everyone prefers to be with a good looking person.

This is how i see it, its okay for you to not want them to be ugly but dont date them just because of there looks. If you really care about someone that will go away.Its not really shallow but if all you want in a guy is there looks then thats not right.

no, you would only be shallow if “looks” in the relationship was the ONLY thing that matterd to you. if you care about who he actually is and all that, being attracted to him helps too.

no, you would only be shallow if “looks” in the relationship was the ONLY thing that matterd to you. if you care about who he actually is and all that, being attracted to him helps too.

sorry it keeps posting stuff twice. :/

sorry it keeps posting stuff twice. :/

no, u have to be attracted to who ur dating, just as long as ur not dating them just because of their looks..personality can also make a person attractive or like janny said, it can develop..

Shallow and foolish because you will never find love like that. While a person may have the looks they may not always have the personality. They can look as good as a beautiful sunset, but can be as dumb as a box rocks. Boring, doesn’t like to go out, no fun, no sense of humor, mean, who’s an ugly person on the inside & so on. Basically, just a “shell..” As you mature, you’ll realize eventually not to base everything in a relationship on the physical stuff. In my opinion it is too childish and immature.

no i would, as long as thats not the only reason your with them