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Why do women decide to get an abortion?

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Ok, I do not want to offend anyone! Im just curious about what makes them to have one. What are they thinking, like what are your thoughts on it, and what was going through your head when you decided to have one & shit ?? I'm pro-life, but I dont understand why some people get abortions.I can understand on some circumstances, like I know theres a hereditary disease that causes a baby's head not to form correctly and not close, and they usually die during the pregnency and the ones that live through pregency, die soon after theyre born and they suffer so I can understand, why you would get an abortion so neither of you suffered. But I dont get why some people have an abortion because they dont want a baby, or because they already have one or more, or something like that. If you already have a kid and love them, why would you abort the next one? and if you think its just a lump of cells, why do you not care, its a baby that wouldve had a life. My sisters baby had a heartbeat at 6 weeks. He was alive during 6weeks and now is a beautiful baby boy! My dads ex girlfriend had an abortion and aborted my baby brother because she didnt want anymore kids. If you live in china or somewhere like that I know that its not your choice, but in america you can give it up for adoption. And if you dont have the money to raise a baby, theres welfare, free medicade(or health insurance), food stamps,wic, and free childcare(like if you work or have school)!!! Also you can get child support if the baby's dad abandons you(men who do that deserve having to pay up, because thats wrong!!!). You can have your friends help you or your parents or siblings. There are many ways to avoid having an abortion, yet people still have them. I just dont understand. So id like to know your thoughts on it! like I said I don't want to offend any one and if I did im sorry, and please dont post hate comments and tell me what I said that offended you and ill either explain it in another way or take it out of here.