Why do nice guys finish last?

It seems to me that 90% of girls go for a guy that treats them like s*hit, why do you think that is? it makes no sense to me… I should just becaome an a$$hole myself and see what happens… but I cant, I care way to much.

What are your thoughts about it?

Answer #1

dude… im just like you… I cant be a$$hole either im just exessive nice guy I donno if girls like that or not… but hell lol someday ull find the girl who ‘ll relly likes you & accept you whatever you are… I met this girl 7 months ago.. I hope that you find yours… be optmstic dude… best luck

Answer #2

Girls are suckers for drama!!! Thats it!!! But don’t be that way. It’s not cool and you don’t score many points with others.

Answer #3

thats what she is, im not shallow at all. I care way way way more about the personality then anything, I want to be able to look into their eyes and know in my heart that they are true. you could put 10 of the hottest porn stars/models in front of me, and I would tackle through all of them to get this girl…

Answer #4

I really hate shallow guys. I think there is someone out there for everyone, but if you’re looking at all the popular girls, they just want to waste their life away. If you want a surious relationship, then look for the shy pretty girls, because they’re so much nicer and eaiser to deal with than a spoiled popular brat.

Answer #5

but why would you want someone to half a$$ love you when you have another person that would gladly rip out his own heart and give it to her.

Answer #6

Or maybe its because these girls ‘love” the a**holes and is afraid that if they leave them, then they will never find anyone else or feel unworthy.

Answer #7

I don’t know, I hate that. Its probably because the girls like the drama, or don’t care about themselves. or maybe because its really hard to find a nice guy. just care for a girl and if shes worth it, she’ll stay.

Answer #8

I just figured that im worthless. must be something about me that scares girls away, sucks when you get punished for caring to much… and thats how its been my whole life.

Answer #9

Because sometimes the girl doesn’t know any better. My husband cheated on me and we are in the process of “being separated”. When we first got together he treated me really good and by then I was hooked. Now I’m the one suffering with our 3 kids while he’s out getting his rocks off. Life isn’t fair, just let her know that you’re there for her. She will eventually wake up and I hope it’s not too late for her then.

Answer #10

no, you just have to find the right girl. they’re psychotic, which is why I only have a few friends that are girls. I just think they don’t want to be treated right when they have low self esteem, like they’re not worth it. you have to focus on what you have instead of what you don’t have, or there won’t be any progression. relationships are tough and I hurt someone I used to love, everyday it kills me. the right one will come, just be positive and stay you

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