Why do nice guys finish last?

Why is it you always hear about girls who would be so grateful for a kind, sweet, and respectful guy, but always end up with the ones who will take advantage of them, and then when you try to prove you’re not that kind of guy, they don’t trust you because “all guys are the same?”

Answer #1

It happens for a variety of reasons, many of them have been outlined above.

For me, it was a phase- I liked ‘bad boys’, I thought I could change them for the better I guess. Man, was I wrong! However, it does seem to work both ways- I’ve met plenty of nice guys who go for a ‘broken’ girl, believing they can ‘fix’ her, make her feel better, help nurture her into a happier person. Again, it doesn’t always work.

However, most of the decent girls grow out of it. While it may not be rocking for you now, it’s often good to just let the dust settle. My husband was known by everyone as ‘the nice guy’, and while others were reluctant to date him because of his good nature, I’m glad- because I reckon I scored the most wonderful husband a lady could ask for!

Answer #2

well unfortunately girls are “wired” to seek attention…’some become desparate for that attention and they usually get it from the jerks because they just wanna use the girl but usually most girls eventually realize they’re gettin the wrong kind of attention…even though they frequently repeat they’re mistakes…Because it happens so much girls just have a hard time trusting guys because the jerks seem nice at first too.those “nice guys” just have to show up and give the girl healthy attention and not expect her to lower their standards for them but show her their different and be patient!

Answer #3

I’m grateful for kind sweet guys. Some girls are just stubborn and they want to believe everything the jerk says… then he screws them over and they cry their eyes out until they find another jerk.

:)

Answer #4

because ether the girl wants the “nice guy” to feel bad for her ,,the “nice guy” is not a hoe like her..the girl is dumb or scared..or the “nice guy” is to smart for her depends on the girl :)

Answer #5

Some girls are unlucky and just attract bad boys and jerks.

Other girls, regardless of what they may say, choose to go out with bad boys and jerks.

To some girls, the guys looks are the only thing that is important to them as they enjoy showing off their guy to their friends like a trophy.

They enjoy the envy this can provoke in their friends and feel that by having such a good looking guy it makes themselves look special and ‘better’ than their friends.

These guys may treat the girl very badly but the need to have a trophy boyfriend is so powerful to them, they ‘put up’ with the bad behaviour.

If you think about it, you may all know girls like the ones above.

Kiasu

Answer #6

Because they are stupid and hard headed. they would much rather stay with the jerks as opposed to bettering themselves

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