Why do nice girls always finish last?

I have always been the nice girl the one who is nice and friendly to everyone even the people who have not been so nice to me. Lately I been having this feeling that this is why I get taken advantage of by friends, is because im too nice and trust worthy.

Well I been thinking about being a total bitch to everyone and finally stand up for myself and be the girl who “ tells it like it is” no matter how much I hurt other peoples feelings. I been bullied and teasted for too long and I wanna take a stand.

I am just wondering why is it that the nice girls always finish last? Should I take a stand or stay back and be the nice girl?

Answer #1

I’ve been the nice girl and I still am . But you have to make sure your friends aren’t using you. If you do feel bullied then yeah stand up for yourself.Don’t be a doormat but don’t be a mean girl :) x

Answer #2

Be a nice girl who could stand up for herself. Being a good person can never be bad. If you are a nice person, you can always be proud of that fact. If you’re a b!tch, sooner or later things will begin to spiral and you get eatten up in drama. Even if it means that you’re bullied and teased, you are the one who’s a victim. Don’t make someone else into one. You’ve felt that position before, don’t push it on others. I don’t see anything wrong about being a nice person, it’s a good thing, and I greatly admire that quality.

Answer #3

they are hard to get

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