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what went wrong during our happy relationship

Me and my boyfriend meet at work and we both had partner's already we both left them for each other.we been together for two years,I became pregnant and we had a little boy.we got along just fine till then he no longer want's to have sex with me anymore his excused is that he's tired come on no one could be that tired.Does that mean he dont love me anymore.were both 43 years old.

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You ask, "Does it mean he doesn't love me anymore?"

Only you and he can find out the answer to this. Talk to him in a non-threatening way. Get a baby-sitter and go out to eat somewhere. Tell him you want to talk. Tell him you know he is tired, but that you both need intimacy. Ask what you can do to help him? Try and approach him in a helpful, neutral tone. Tell him you are too young to want to live just as room mates and the one you want is him. Maybe it will be a matter of 'scheduling' sex. I know that doesn't sound very romantic, but it can be. Sometimes work and kids make it difficult. If you have a couple of nights reserved for 'more.' It could be something to look forward to. But mainly you need to listen and talk and find out the answer to your question yourself.

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