What to do when your spouse does not take responsibility for abuse?

My husband assaulted me. I ended up in the hospital with a concussion, sprained back, shoulder and wrist and my kidneys were bleeding from him kicking me so hard.

He has been in jail and a protective order was issued that expired. He called me and told me that he had just been released from jail, truth was, he had been released two days before. He then, told me he didn’t touch me, which is the story he told the police. When I told him he was not being honest and that I was in the hospital with my bleeding kidneys, and still a black eye and to my amazement— he laughed! Not a little laugh, he laughed like he was crazy!! He deny’s touching me, but he and I both know he is lying.

He moved out of our house today and went back home to him mom. His mom does not treat me well and they haven’t had a relationship in over two years.

My husband has never put his hands on my before! I am in shock and still so numb! However the fact that he denies touching me is even more hurtful. This is suppose to be the man who love me and who is suppose to protect me!!!

Answer #1

tell him you still luv him and that you forgive him even tho you may not he is in denial bout what he did and doesnt no how to confront it ask him to move back in and to please forget this ik itz hard but if you luv him give him another chance trust me men have flaws and I am young and I have been hit by an ex before but I regret not givin him a chance because I luv him so I don’t know that is just what I think

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