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What should I do? Ladies some advice please.

Okay I have been talking to this girl casually for about five months now. We had kissed and she has spent the night togther a few times but no sex. So we were apart during the summer but we still texted and talked about every other day. She would tell me that she missed me and that she wanted to cuddle. So she comes back in town about a week and a half ago and we have hung out like three times casually. Then I go out of town friday and she asks me where I am at and when I am coming back. SO we make plans for the next night. SO the next night comes around and her and a few of her friend come over and drink. But the entire night she basically ignores me. So I think that it is because she is under a lot of stress. So a talk to her a few days later and ask her what was wrong. She says that she just wants to be frineds. I was like what the f*ck the other day you want to hang out and act like you have feelings for me then the very next day you want to be friends. So my question is what should I do. I like the girl and want to persue something. So should I just give her some space for a like a week and test the waters with her. Or should I just forget about it. All the women out there give me some advice please. DO you think she still have feelings for me.

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Answer #1

There could be some things wrong with her: you might be acting too nice to her, she’s under a lot of pressure and wants to run away from her feelings.Whatever it is that’s wrong with her take the initiative. Don’t act like you’ll die if she’s not with you, try to build some comfort with her: ask her what’s wrong and try to be of help to her whenever you can, do other fun things with her- don’t stress the relationship suff, do some fun things with your friends and enjoy yourself whether she’s around or not because you should’nt let her define your life for you.

Answer #2

personally I think that she does have feelings for her but there is something in the way and she doesnt know exactly what she wants. if you like her as much as you do give her some time and space dont text her or call her wait for her to make the move

Answer #3

Yo I would tell you that she has confused feelings. Hang out with her more and don’t let her get away. Maybe she’ll be more clear about her feelings and good things will happen. Yeah give her time but that doesn’t mean you can’t spend time with her. Don’t let other guys get the chance to mix up her feelings anymore. So be the man for her and see what happens after a couple of weeks. By then you’ll know if you two will end up happily. P E A C E!

Answer #4

I think that she is really confused right now and she might still have feelings for you. If she is acting like she wants more one minute then the next she doesnt then she is trying to figure out what she really wants. You should persue her and tell her how you feel and what you want so that she knows. If she still wants to be just friends then you should just try to move on. And it is easier said than done. I know I am going through the same thing as you. I wish you the best of luck.

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