Your thoughts/opinions & advice please

Well im not sure on how to ask this one. but basically im kind of with this guy, although officially we’re not going out. his coming round to my house on friday after I’ve finished school. we decided over christmas to have sex & although we might not end up having it on friday I want to be prepared. a lot of people (my friends) think im making a big mistake. I used to think he might be using me but I talked to him about it and was fine until the other day he refered to me as a “friend” so I spoke to him yesterday about how I felt and he said he wanted to have sex with me for the right reason which was that he liked me & I have to accept that. I know that if I do go ahead with this I may end up regretting it, but isnt it better to regret doing something rather than regret not doing it? there isnt anyone I’d want to my virginity to more than him, the way he makes me feel is amazing & so undescrible. one problem is that is 17 and im 15 (nearly 16 although still underage) however im extremely mature for my age and grown up, I still can be naive as many teenagers but I think im older enough and responsible enough for my actions and he knows the risks involed. his knows im not on the pill or any other form of contraception and of course we’ll use condoms although there arent always reliable. So I was just wondering you thoughts/opinons and advice on the whole “thing” thank you x

Answer #1

I think before losing something that you can not get back what so ever you should get this boy to commit to you and be in a stable relationship before doing anything you might regret as for speaking to him about him about having sex of course he wants to hes a boy and will prob say w/e to get into your pants if you like him fair enough but I think you should get him to commit to you otherwise what is stopping him from having sex with you then having sex with some one else x

Answer #2

If you are a virgin - you are going to seriously regret giving it to a guy that you are not even in a relationship with. You are asking for a heartbreak my dear. You need to rethink this a lot of and listen to your friends.

I can’t tell you whether he is using you or not - but I can tell you that most guys will loose interest in you if you are too easy.

Answer #3

I’m not to easy. We’ve been “together” for 9months, but only first got on just before christmas but it took me a while to do that because I thought he might use me because he’d never got off before, but im so glad I did. My first time getting off was horrible but with him it was perfect and I dont regret it was the right thing to do

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