Should I have sex with him or not? Please give me your advice.

honestly it’s up to you…but let me tell you something so you can really think about it very hard…I lost mine when I was 14 and yea at that time I was like oh I like this and what not. im 18 now, and I honestly truly wish I had waited for the right one and waited until I’ve been with someone for a loong time and felt like I was ready . I was only with the guy a little while when I lost mine. loosing my virginity so soon is one of my regrets.

oh and nobody is going to call you a slut or anything. they only do it out of immaturity. and if they do and its obvious your boyfriend’s telling people and bragging about it.

the decision is all on you and all I can give you is what I feel about me loosing mine so early. I dont want you to make a decision that you’ll regret. so just think about it and dont base it on him.

hope I helped :)

meli

Oh darling, please do your life a favor- and wait! no rush girl- sex is wonderful, but I may sound like a grandma- it is so awesome when you are totally ready, and when its with someone you have a good friendship/relationship with. You have sooo much time for that. Dont ruin your first time. Putting your age aside. Do you know how I know you are not ready and that you shouldnt? You are asking us! When you are ready- you will know. I’m sorry to say- people call people names regardless. I was called a slut before I even kissed a guy. Please wait! I promise you the longer you wait - the better. Plus- guys stick around longer that way ; )

Please think about you in this decision…seriously it is all about you and your body. Don’t think about anyone else. I think most people would say wait… do other things you are comfortable with. But 13 is not really an age where you are really ready for a mature decision such as sex. I am not trying to talk down to you but really until you are 100 percent…DONT!!! If he loves you he will stay with you until you are really ready. Don’t listen to other people calling you a slut. When your heart is ready you will know…FOR SURE!!!

well its your desicion if you do it or not. but to me your a little to young to be havin sex. You probably think your in love because you like like like him a lot. You will know if you wanna have sex with him, there will bea sign.

Just don’t rush into anything. take your time. if he loves you he will be okay with what ever desicion you make.

You really shouldn’t. You’re 13 years old and you don’t want to have some stupid mistake and get pregnant. And honestly waiting is a good thing because you will find out if he truly likes you or if he is just wanting to either get laid or just take your virginity. You should wait until you’re with someone you truly want to be with for the rest of your life.

Well its only up to you not him. Are you ready? Do you know the consequences? 13 is young but its your choice to live with it as people calling you a slut and shit like that.

if I were you, I wouldn’t. I really don’t think I was mature enough to handle sex at 13. It’s an intense thing that both people should be mature about when getting into it. good luck

If you’re in such a great relationship then he will wait ‘til you’re old enough.