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I met this nice guy hes a basketball player weve been talking for awhile now hes a D1 player despite his busy schedule we manage to talk alot wen hes not in practice or has a game we skype everynight the height is weird hes 7’1 and im 4’10 is that a big difference? will it look funny im not a heel person either

Hes african as in Nigerian background im asian and black its a interracial relationship we talk alot he talked about how beautiful i am and i told him im a v he has to no prob with that hes done sexual things before but he talks about how he loves my boobs and i have a beautiful face he wants to see it everynight before he goes to sleep do you think hes interested

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Answer #1

It sounds like he only wants you for your “boobs” aka sex

Answer #2

Are you sures hes 7’1

Answer #3

Height shouldn’t matter in a relationship, but it sounds like you both are just focusing on looks. And it sounds like he’s just interested in your boobs. Have you ever met him in real life? Have you two been talking for very long at all?

Answer #4

Of course he is interested. The height issue isn’t much of an issue so I am not going to touch that subject. But the subject I will touch is the “boobs” part. It is okay for a guy to express their liking for your body parts but as long as it is in a respectful way. If he is straight saying “I love your boobs” then that is in issue. But your dilemma is you have to see if he wants you for sex (boobs) or for you. From what you wrote it seems like he just wants your virginity and boobs. Now it may be differently, because I am not in the situation. I can only judge from what I read. You have to see and seek out what he wants from you. Whether it is a relationship or sex. Best of luck darling!

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