Should I let her see her family?

Sounds like what happened to me My dad doesn’t live in the state anymore again. And he acme here to MI for 2 years and I got very close to him, then he just disappeared w/out saying bye. I’m still upset but his side of the family is really nice. And I talk to them every once in a while, but it’s not like everyday, well, not anymore. Tell your boyfriend that she should know her family, and that she’ll be fine and that you love him and that you still want to be with him and if your little girl does get hurt, that that’ll be the last time. And I promise you, if she does get hurt, it’ll go away. It’s not going to scar her for life. ((That I know of))

This is a complex situation. He is entitled to see her but at the same time he keeps coming in and out of her life. The thing that I would think to do is explain to your daughter that “daddy” is going through a rough time in his life right now and he may not be able to see her always. The thing with your boy friend is going to have to realize is that she has a father and that he will still be the father figure in her life and the best he can do is love both of you.

It honestly sounds like he’s insecure about your relationship with him. I dont think this has anything to do with your daughter seeing her family (which is what they are, whether he likes it or not). This is really your call. You need to decide what is best for your own daughter. Perhaps having a father who drops in and out is not a good idea. But having a stable extended family may be. It is up to you to decide who you want her seeing and speaking too…

Thanks for the answers.