What is my problem cheated on 3 years ago still cant trust him?

Been together four years cheated on after a year stayed together now have a one year old together, I cant forgive him though, he said he cheated cause he didnt know if he wanted to be with me, did not feel remorse at the time now he tells me over and over im the one hes with but I cant trust im still hurt we still argue about it how can I regain trust or are we doomed?

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well, it will be doomed if you dont both talk about it because uoull keep bringing it up and wont be happy with his answer you need to talk to him about it though this could end the relationship if you get really angry and upset ut you need to dicuss it with him, how you felt at the time, how what he did was wrong, how you feel now,ect and then listen to him talk about the future, and were your both going, if its soemthing you can ever get over, or if theres soemthing he can do to help you, ect

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