Funadvice Logo
+ List
More Love & Relationships Questions

He cheated, but still calls...

Here is the thing……my boyfriend and I were together for 3 years…we had a lot of problems..to name a few….he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder, I drank a lot…anyway….he cheated on me, but like a dummy I stayed with him, because I couldnt bare the thought of not being with him. During our relationship I was living in arizona with him in an apartment. But he ended up breaking up with me, and I moved to Texas, far, far,, away from him. Now he calls me all the time, and sends me messages over the internet. When we talk on the phone, he always makes it a point to tell me how much he misses me, and how much songs and and other stuff remind him of me. The other day, he told me he loved me and that he feels like he didnt tell me that enough during our relationship. So I guess my question is……Does he still love me, and want to be with me? Should I just move on? I dont know what to do, cause I still love him, and think about him everday. Someone help?

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

I believe if you really love the guy then you should give it another try. At least you cant say you didn’t try and maybe hes worth it in your eyes not to let him go if you care so much.

Answer #2

If you do decide to go back, will you be able to trust him again? i do believe he loves you and wants you back becos when you moved far away he could have just forgotten about you and moved on, but the fact that you are far away and he still makes the effort to contact you and tell you he has feelings for you still proves he does. Its really up to you, but if you do can you trust that he is not going to cheat again, becos trust is so important in a relationship, if you dont have it you have nothing, if you are going to get back with him only to question him and accuse him of cheating all the time and feel insecure, then save yourself the drama and move on. But if you can seriously be happy then i say give it another try, but any small hint he is messing around then get up and LEAVE this time! becos if you stay again, he will think he can do what he wants and get away with it, you take a stand to.

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Tri-State Detective Agency

Private Investigation Services, Detective Agency, Investigation Services

Advisor

tarotcardsreading.net

Psychics, Love Readings, Tarot Readings

Advisor

Phoenix Singles

Dating Services, Matchmaking Services, Singles Events

Advisor

SilverSingles

Online Dating, Relationships, Matchmaking

Advisor

Grey Ghost Investigations

Private Investigation, Security Services, Legal Services