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How am I still infactuated with my ex after 3 years?

I dated my high school sweetheart from the ages of 15-20..we were totally in love (young love) but of course had a lot of growing to do. I ended up cheating on him once, a really poor idea, and eventually after a while the truth came out. During the first part of our relationship he went through the usual boyish immaturites, and tended to put his friends first ect ect. We had our share of problems.However, Beyond all of these things, we always had so much in common and just had this amazing connection. Eventually after 5 years we broke up, and moved on in our own ways. After just over a year, he met another girl and they have been together since. I have dated, but quite honestly..I cant get him out of my head. When we see each other there’s just something there I cant explain. I’m too afraid to bring it up to him because I don’t want to interfere in his current relationship…but basically I don’t want to always look back and wonder what we could have had. Help!

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Answer #1

Okay. You claim you guys have a perfect connection but yet you cheated on him. That’s the problem. Even if you did cheat on him for 2 seconds, that still breaks the wonderful bond that you have piece by piece. But if there is hope, maybe you guys can be best friends for now and IF he breaks up with his current girlfriend, he’ll have a shoulder to lean on. But don’t make him make the same mistake you did (cheat). And if ends up not working out, it was never meant to be and you’ll eventually get over it.

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