What if I have been with my boyfriend for 7years and still cant trust him?

I have been with my guy for 7yrs and thing are not so great. When we first dated he use to be jealous and very clingy not it feels like he can’t wait to get away from me. This started when I broke up with him a year ago the went back after him when I relized I loved him still he wanted nothing to do with me. I knew he had a girl in his life but that they weren’t dating, they were co-workers. They hung out slot and talked slot well he finaly allowed me back in his life he says we are working on things but I don’t see changes it’s been four months and he doesn’t want to call me his girlfriend. He has gone out with this girl behind my back when I ask about it he gets mad he says there were other people there but I don’t know if I should believe him he lies in the first the place I alway acuss him of cheating in me with that girl and sometimes others he says he can’t take it at times but it’s his lies that cause it. I don’t know what to do I want to trust him I just feel like he will cheat on me like this girl might be so much better that’s why he goes behind my back to see her and talk to her he say there just friends what should I do am I acusing to much is that what’s pushing him away and maybe in to her arms what does she have that I don’t what do I do??? Help if you can thanks

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Answer #1

jesus hersjonny beats me to it again… hes being honest .. maybe to honest… but honest.. the guy your with seems to be cheating… dont give a second chance… HOW did this all happen? … when you ended things he seaked something else… something along the lines of a good friend maybe more.. co-worker… you hurt him enough for him to go somewhere else and back… well… give it time .. ask him about it.. if in a couple of weeks nothing has changed.. then fuck it.. leave… trust is something you’ll be hard giving now… so yeah being alone is a good idea… JONNY I love you man.

Answer #2

I am going to be brutally honest with you in the hopes that I can give you a wake up call and shake some sense into you, I am sure that you are not going to like what I have to say, but darling get some self esteem for pity sake, what is wrong with you that you would desire a man who treats you poorly and cannot be trusted? You need to not be seeing anyone right now, go to a therapist, work on your self esteem issues, and then find a decent man who will enhance your life, you have already wasted 7 years denying yourself true happiness, dumb this moron like yesterdays garbage and enjoy your life, do not look back and do not regret!

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