What do yall think bout dis? I really need answers- ABUSE...?

funadvice fKd up .. heres my question

I need to ask , is this abuse or not? The other day I told my dad I was meeting up with one of my girl friends at BURGER KING so he dropped me off there. She never came, so I called my boyfriend and he told me hed meet me there. I went outside for a quick cig then while I was walking back inside I saw him coming in, so we kissed a quick 3 times then went inside to chill. I look at the window and I see my dad coming to fetch me. Im a 16 yr old girl with a very strict arab father. Im not allowed to talk to boys have boyfriends smoke drink do ANYTHING. He is also very racist, im not allowed to talk to Blacks/Muslims. So when he caught me .. He called me a whore , trash, bla blah b;lah for “being with a niger, smoking”. He hit me and literally went out of control… all in front of Burger King . So There was some random guy in a car that spoke up about it and my dad hit him too. What do you think about this ?

Ok I know how that could be you young and you want 2 have fun. But dont lie 2 your parents it only makes them not trust you more than they dont now. Is your daddy races? He dont like blacks?

I was raised in a different time, I know…but one thing I don’t think has changed much…the deceit…and the lying are what made your dad lose it…No, he shouldn’t have hit you …and gawd he sure shouldn’t have hit a stranger (that’s worth a trip to jail)…but the bottom line still comes down to this…Who was the root cause of all of this “trouble”? You knew you were taking a chance when you told the first lie…You know your father, and how he might react.

There’s darn few parents who’s parenting skills could stand up under a microscope…so unless his hitting you, calling you names is a weekly/daily thing, I wouldn’t call it abuse…I’d called it a dad who got scared (and disappointed) for his daughter…who’s temper got away from him.

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it is abuse, yes he abused you, your boyfreind and the guy who spoke up about it the way your father is acting is racist and disgusting I would blame his arab culture and the way he was raised for how hes acting I think you should go to the police about this your obviously scared of him because you feel like hed hurt you if he caught you with a guy, ect, which is why your hiding it from him he needs some sense slapped into him and needs to know that what he did was NOT acceptable behaviour and thats not how people should act nowdays it might be best for you to live away from him, with another parent,m friend, relative, ect for a while because its certainly not safe for you to live with him if hes going to abuse you for being a normal teenage girl

Report it. Most likely nothing will happen but there will be a record on file just in case anything like that ever happens again.

jessie3015 there are other types of abuse as well like emotional abuse and mental abuse

no its not abuse, unless he physically hurt you or your “boyfriend”

yeah that is actually kind of abusive but if you dont have a bruise then you aint got the proof(dss moto) so get proof