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I've been going out with my girlfriend for about half a year and at the start of the relationship everything was beautiful everything felt alright and happy..and then we got into an argument every now and then but we always made up...recently though shes started to act kind of distant to me...and I thought it was because I was being too clingy and attached to her so I stopped that...so I saw her today and shes still acting funny...her ex boyfriend cheated on her with someone else and got them pregnant and everything has been going pretty bad since she told me she had a dream about him...shes one of those really strong types of females that will pretend that something isnt getting to her when it really is...she used to call me baby all the time now she doesn't and now she wont let me in her heart or her mind anymore she tells me I don't know to questions that I ask I ask her if shes confused and she tells me no...I wonder if shes testing me or something to see if what we were feeling is true??she doesnt even want to talk about the future anymore I don't understand im so lost and I've never felt this way about anyone in my entire life...so what do I do?
All you can do is talk to her. Get her at a time she seems fairly relaxed or not stressed and just say you noticed she has been a little distant recently and that you hope everything is ok. Just tell her you are always there for her if she needs to talk about anything, so she shouldn't have to feel you would not want to hear about anything that is upsetting her. That is all you can do really- she will be open about whatever it is when she is ready and you can hopefully build your connection up more again. Just be there and try and do fun stuff with her and things will get better in time if you are meant to be together. Good luck, I really hope this work out for you.
well it sounds like what I do whenever im about to brake up with my boyfriend, well you should spend more time together in person to make her fill closer to you, if that doesnt work then im sorry
