What do I do if my husbands friend is getting too friendly?

If I was this uncomfortable having this guy around when hubby is not…then I’d simply tell him that he doesn’t need to be there when your man isn’t…Tell him to call first to see if hubby is home and not busy. Don’t hint…tell it flat out.

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Tell your husband that you feel uncomfortable with this guy around and asking you strange questions. You don’t need to not let him come over anymore, just make sure your husband knows whats going on.

if you tell him he would love that…but if you dont want to tell him and ruin his friendship then warn the guy…and if he crosses it again then he ruined the friendship and not you…

he likes you. he wouldnt be asking if your happy for nothing there has to be a reason. you should keep your distance from him. or talk to your hubby bout. better the communication better the relationship

Honestly if signals are flaring, pay attention. And be direct. If you dont think a question is appropriate or any of his business, say so. Whether you get your husband involved in this or not, your hesitation to stand up to this guy is what is making him think that it is ok to ask these questions. You dont have to be rude about it. But be firm. And if someone is making your nervous in your own home, it is time to take back that power (wow, that sounded horribly cliche). If you catch him staring, point it out. Make it a joke, make it light, but point it out. Let him know that you know what he is doing and you arent going to take it. Men like that do it for the power. So time to step up and take that power back. Also, it is perfectly fine to point out to your husband that it is not ok for his friend to be around as much (again, tact is necessary here).

Exacly. Your husband is protective about you, so that should make you want to tell him more, because not telling him would make him susputions that meaby you are atracted to that friend.

Tell him and let him know the feeling that you have been feeling, And let him know the questions and everything so meaby your husban can sort all this out.