What can I say to my gay best friend?

First advice about coming out and what you should say, I think it’s hard enough to accept your gay, tell your friends and then be scared s hitless to be disowned by your parents if they find out. What he needs is a friend to listen, to understand and not to pressure him into coming out if he isn’t ready. So, I advise you let him deal with his parents and figure out by himself if he wants to share his personal life with them or not. Next, the girlfriend thing. I think that you are entitled to your opinion and that you as a friend should share it with him. That is if he is saying something to you that seems indecent, contrary or mean then you should call him on it. Maybe he doesn’t realize how hurtful he is being by saying this or maybe he still hopes he is straight or bisexual. Either way, if he is telling you this, then you have a right to react and say what you think. I think I’d just say something like I.e.: I really love you as a friend but what you said about dumping G for some random stranger just because they are a girl. well, frankly I just don,t get it. How can you say you love him then say you’d break his heart? I don’t want to judged but it just seems so unfair.” You can also tell him that G really loves him and that he should be honest with him. But that is as far as I would go into getting involved. Afterall, they have to figure things out as a couple together. Sounds like you are a good friend so just fallow your heart!