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how to know if you've been raped when you were young?

I dont know why I’ve had this feeling like i was raped. I’m only 15 and I’ve blacked out drunk 4 times but one time I was hanging out with guys and I had 2 drinks there’s no way I could have gotten so drunk.. I feel like they spiked my drink but I guess it would be my fault… When I was 3 I lived in a different country my parents came here to the USA and left me with my grandma for a couple months she was very inresponsible she didn’t shower me most of the time I don’t remember anything but I remember when I got here I had this big Teddy and I use to pretend to have sex with him and I was only 5 I don’t even kno how I would have known what sex was I’ve always been very obsessive with sex and I wet the bed and my pants all the time up to like 4th grade and ive been masterbating for as long as I can remember (I know this all really weird but it’s true) this other time I blacked out drunk and woke up with bruises and no shirt… I feel really weird around older men, even my dad and my older brother like whenever they hug me or look at me I feel weird and uncomfortable idiom :/ what do you guys think??? Help :(

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Answer #1

First of all I think you need to be careful with who you choose to hang around. Having suspicions that someone may have spiked your drink is really serious and you need to look after yourself and not put yourself in dangerous situations.

I thought I should also point out to you that even though many people may find it weird there is such thing as child masturbation. It is natural. Of course sexual assault can sometimes spur this on but I think people need to open their eyes and realise that it can be a normal occurrence The main thing is that you don’t remember having gone through a traumatic rape situation that you are aware of. You are not having effects of a horrible experience so carry on with life. Nothing specifically has happened (as far as you know) to affect you deeply so move on from the worries and suspicions as they will not help you in any way. God forbid you have not been harmed in any way but I can see that it is evident that you have an issue surrounding this concern. Try and see if you can talk to someone about it, a relative or a therapist. I promise it will help ease your worries and eventually make you feel more comfortable.

I wish you the best of luck sweetie.

Answer #2

It is possibe. do you have any stuttering problems? i know its random but do u?

Answer #3

its possible but almost impossible to tell if you dont actually know. first off if you get raped or get your drink spiked its NOT your fault, it theirs, secondly its normal for children to matserbate and be interested in sex at a early age, the onlt concerning thing is the time you blacked out and woke up without a shirt on…however its much too late to do a test to see if there was any semen since it wouldnt be in you anymore. its unlikley you were raped, however if your concerned, you could always see one of those people who kind of hypnotise you to try to make you remember things that happened int he past that you dont quite remember, it can be expensive though

Answer #4

i guess its happening bcz u r craving for sex bt u dont hv it… i think u shud hv sm gud stimulating exercises for example u cn ask any of ur frnz to stare at ur naked body…this is really fun.nd u cn also ask them to touch ur boobs nd suck them…dont forget to put their hands inside ur panty.all this will quench ur thirst

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