update on sexless relationship

I read your advice about being in a sexless relationship, and first you have to know that I am in the exact situation you are in, I’m 26,and in great shape, been in a 2 year relationship, and it has been a year since we’ve been sexual. He just stopped affection and intimacy all together. He doesn’t kiss me, and doesn’t touch me, and like you, It consumes my mind. It’s all I think about when I am with him. It’s really doing some serious damage to my self esteem. I’ve confronted him about it, and he says that he has no sex drive, and he doesn’t ever want or feel like doing it. He maserbaes on a regular basis, which he hides from me, and hates talking about anyting sexual. THIS IS NOT NORMAL. WHAT HAPPENED? It sucks because I can’t do this anymore, and I love him, he’s my life. I have no other choice, he wont agree to get help or make it better. He said if I have to leave him because of that, then there’s nothing he can do about it, and that I should just move on if thats whats going to make me happy. I cannot believe this is happening, I never in a million years thought I would have to deal with something like this. SO I have to know, what did you end up doing? Are you still in that relationship? None of my friends even understand what I’m going through, I feel very alone, like I’m the only girl in the world whose boyfriend doesn’t want sex or even to touch them because it could lead to sex,ect. I’m so miserable, I hope you can shed some more light on this subject for me.