New young parents, sexless relationship

You aren’t doing anything wrong. Sex is great I know, but sex shouldn’t be the most important part of a relationship. You will someday decide you do want sex anymore and then you will have to rely on love and the foundation yall have built for yalls relationship. I would say try a different approach like let your baby girl say with your mother for the weekend and try dinner and talk while you eat, not about sex but stuff like how has your day been and so on, then maybe see a movie or something to restore the sparks yall have you know the small simple things you remember forever. I will also say that porn isn’t right. His focus needs to be on you and his girl. You should talk to him about that one day maybe after you’ve tried this slow approach. Maybe he wasn’t ready for a baby and he is afraid to have another one and is also afraid to talk to you about it. Don’t give up yet, but if you keep on keeping on and he wont let you in and he wont change then you need to move on to someone that will treat you right, but only if you know that there is nothing let their for you, because you can’t change it if you do. I wish you the best of luck and I hope it all works out for you

You need to scare him, since you have tried over and over to spice up your sex life and he is the one not responding its his problem, so there is no point in talking to him about it or organising surprises and romantic nights becos its clear he isnt interested and isnt doing anything about it. So get your baby and walk out! tell him you dont feel connected to him anymore and have been trying but he is the one not responding so you need to think about things, that will scare the pants off him!!!

You do not do anything wrong, but males (just like females) may loose their sexual drive, totally or partly, time to time to their wives or husbands. Now I am an old male. When I was quite younger I wanted to date a girl, but I did not succeed. She married, had a baby, I just forgot her, but once she called me on phone. She complained on her husband, and we started to make sex on a regular basis, weekly for let’s say laf a year or more. And after a while she told me that her husband started to function well again. And our secret relationship ended.