Tried to commit suicide afraid to tell my mum

talk to somebody. I was the same way but I tried it three times. My mom was mad more than anything. hun your young and you have your whole life ahead of you. don’t kill yourself cause things will only get better for you if things are bad now. You don’t want to miss out on all the fun things coming your way. Even if you think things are bad now, they aren’t and only you can change that. Killing yourself is not the answer. it will only make other you leave behind suffer more and feel worse than how you are feeling now. it’s not worth it.

My ex-boyfriend and my best friend are now dating each other and… my life isnt going to the way I want it to

u tink dats bad I got cheatd by my girlfriend and 2 homies. want to know how I found out? I walked in on all 3 of dem funkin. and I heard her screamin and I thot sumtin was wrong. so urs aint that bad. I grew up wit dese guys. da easiest way 2 get over dem is 2 just say funk you and show dem your bttr den dem

AW DONT THINK THAT WAY GIRLY your A BEAUTIFUL GIRL and you HAVE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF U…LIFE ISNT EASY and EVERYI=ONE PASSES THROUGH THEIR OWN TUFF TIMES…JUST THINK THAT THERE IS someone BETTER OUT THERE.. and you SHOULD TALK TO SOMEONE…IT DOSENT HAVE TO BE your MOM BUT JUST LET someone KNOW THAT CAN HELP you TROUGH THE TUFF TIME…

GOOD LUCK…N JUST REMEMBER LIFE IS A ROLLER COASTER WE ALL HAVE OUR UPS and DOWNS

Suicide isn’t the answer at all,I have tried doing it as well cause I was lonely,this was before I met my girlfriend but she cured me. Push them out your life if they are what is causing you to be like this. Create a new path for yourself with a close friends help,once you have that done,use it to live a much brighter and better life. Don’t let them take you down.

Thats not hte whole story for me he sleeps with my best friend and then he trys to get with me and then he hits me. My mum just had a heart attack and my life suxs so bead right now!

WOW,if he does hit you after refusing,do what self defense is here for,hit him right back. If your mom is still with you,have a grown up friend of your mom homeschool you so you can be with her and not pay any attention to those backstabbers.

Talk to your mom. You will hurt her a lot more if you do commit suicide. Talking with her may help you better see your own reality. Give her a chance. She’s probably seen and been through a lot of what you are going through.

You are at an age where hormones, emotions and even your brain are undergoing strong changes. It is natural to occasionally feel confused or depressed.

The best thing you can do is to talk to a counselor or therapist. Barring that, find someone you can communicate your emotions and thoughts with, sort of like a sounding board. Keeping your thoughts to yourself doesn’t help. If you can’t find someone around you then consider Fun Mailing someone on Fun Advice whose advice you like. It’s relatively private and gives you a good sounding board.

Check out the link below for information on teen depression.

Information on teen depression:

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_teen_teenagers.htm

If you are having problems or are depressed, below are a couple of sites that may help you:

Worldwide:

Check out the Befrienders link below. They are not only a suicide hotline but also offer help to people who are stressed or are in a state of depression.

http://www.befrienders.org/support/helplines.asp

In the U.S.A., you also have access to:

Boys Town National Hotline

Call With Any Problem, Any Time

1-800-448-3000

http://www.boystown.org/hotline/index.asp

Fun Mail a “sounding board”!

I would assume that you can’t talk about what you are going through with anyone because it is too personal and you don’t want others to know about it in relation to you.

The solution, then, might be to pick someone on Fun Advice whose advice you like and Fun Mail them. (You can check out the quality of someone’s advice by clicking on their name; going down to their recent advice, click on view all, then click on the questions that might interest you and view their answers.) Explain to them that you are having problems and want to have someone to use as a “sounding board” and would like to know if they would be willing to be your sounding board. Fun Mail is basically private, so you shouldn’t have any concerns about your privacy.

Although there are many users on Fun Advice who would be qualified, I’d suggest the person be an Advisor, for two reasons: First, most Advisors have several hundred or even thousands of Answers under their belt which can really give you a perspective about them; and second, you can simply click on the Advisors link at the top of the page and view a list of the most recently active Advisors with information about them AND a total of their Answers. (Don’t contact them by that “Ask me a question” link. That’s public. Instead, click on their name which will take you to their Profile page, then click on the “Send me Fun Mail” link on the left side of the page.)

You also have the ability to Fun Mail anyone (Advisor or otherwise) by clicking on the “Send me Fun Mail” link near the top of the Answer under the person’s name.

        Simply a Rose to brighten your day,         And maybe lessen the cares in your way;         And also, too, to help you to know,         That in knowing you, many others grow!

Suicide is a long term solution to a short term problem. Can you remember some fight you had with an important person when you were younger? A best friend, maybe? Remember how important it seemed to you at the time? And how important is it now? You will not remember why you even liked this person 6 months after you kick him to the curb. It only seems like the end of the world now. It isn’t. You simply cannot allow another person to have the kind of power over you. Not your boyfriend — not even your mom.
Please call a crisis line and talk it through.

and my life suxs so bad right now!

Key words here are “right now”, and YOU said them yourself!!! :)…EVERYTHING in life is temporary…the good and the bad…a year from now, this time will be a memory…Trust me, I’m old…

granny phrannie

Your best friend is a total waste of time if thats how she treats you. Your ex - well your lucky he’s your ex if he hit you. I’m sorry, sometimes life throws some people complete rubbish and others seem to sail through. Please don’t do anything stoopid though, there so not worth it. You are a faboulous person who is loved. If these people are too self absorbed then leave them, they deserve each other two pieces of sh1t. Have you ever tried writing music - at least get something worthwhile from this bad experience. Seriously, sucide is final, my personal belief is that it is selfish. I was friends woh a woman, she’d have been my grannys age, her son had comitted sucide about 30 years before - she never got over it. The people you leave behind (your mom) will feel it was their fault for not listening or not seeing how down you were. I’ve seen it first hand, you can’t just do it and expect the world to stay the same. No matter what you think there are people who love you, whos lives would never be the same without you. Its hard enough to stay alive these days without volunteering to do away with your self. Private mail me to vent anytime x