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Try again or let it go?

I am so very confused. I really like this guy. We have been mates for a while but we are only just getting really close.

He apprently tried to ask me out last saturday but I was being weird with him. Which I was cause I didn’t want to seem like I liked him too much, which seemed like a good idea at the time. Not so smart now I know he likes me too.

My friend has been telling him that I just want a ‘f**k buddy’ which makes me seem like a proper slapper and made him think that I only wanted someone to do stuff with. Which isn’t at all true. I’m really not like that at all. Okay I do freak out at the thought of spending the rest of my life with someone but I’m only 15 so it’s only natural surely.

So his response to me being his ‘fk buddy’ was that he just wants to be friends. Which is partly why I like him so much. He has morals and wouldn’t feel right ‘useing’ me like that. Hes a really good guy. I have explained to him that I’m not just looking for a fk buddy. He said he still really likes me.

Then I said I was confused and he said he was confused and now I have no idea what to do next.

Should I talk to him about it again? Do you think he’ll make a move? Or is it over with him for good. Should I just let it go?

Thanks

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Answer #1

Dont give up quite yet. Things may work out. I dont know if he’ll make a move, but you could ask him out. Be clear that its a date, that way it takes out the possibility of a just friends hanging out, or a friends with benefits (you dont go out on a date if you just want to sleep with someone). Tell him you’d like to start over. And your friend’s an idiot.

Answer #2

Drop the games and tell him how you feel. It’s obvious the two of you are retarded for each other, so just tell him that you were confused because you were nervous about what this could do to your friendship and then tell him that you like him.

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