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How can I try not to let my depression effect my relationship?

I love my boyfriend soo much. Weve been together for allil while now and I get really bad depression a lot and I cant control it. I’ve been tryn really hard not to let it effect our relationship because I dont him to think its his fault im sad. Even after oral sex one minute im happy next minute im just not but really I was ready. I just dont want to break up because of it an I make sure we talk about everything with eachother. I dont know what I should do. Please help!

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Before my husband and I got married, when we were dating, I fought depression extremely bad. I was like you. Just talk to him about it and let him know what is going on. If he really loves you, he will work with you on it and trust you when you say it isn’t him. You will have to keep telling him that it isn’t him. But if he really loves you, he will stick by you. I’ve gotten past most of my depression now, but still go through some boughts of it. My husband knows this and is just as supportive as he can be.. Just tell your boyfriend some things that make you happy or less depressed if there is anything he can do that helps. And like I said, just make sure you tell him it isn’t because of him. I hope it works out for you. Let me know if I can help you with anything…coping with it or anything…

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