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Should I try to wait 3 years until we can go out?

ok rite this is pretty hard to explain but I will try my best…

me and this guy(lets call him bob) have like each other for about a year now. however we can’t go out as bob is 17 and 18 in december and im only 15 and we both go to the same cadets and bob really wants to become a naval officer so going out with me would affect him getting the career he wants. we could go out like outside of cadets but when I talked to him about this he made the point that we would prabably never get to see eachother as we are both usually pretty busy on the weekends and stuff but soon (in july) he will have gotten his driving license and this could change this situation. I have tried to get over him because at the moment I would have to wait about 3 years until we can go out but as much as a try I just can not get over him! I dont want to spend 3 years without any sexual activity9not nessacairly sex) but I feel kinda unfaithful to him everytime I do anything with another guy. what on earth do I do!? does anyone have any ideas!? or should I just wait it out, see whether I get over him, and in the meantime have as much fun as possible!?

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Answer #1

well basically if he goes out with a cadet when hes staff which he will be in december the navy can stop him from becoming and officer straight away and only allow him to become a rating!

Answer #2

Hey…its not in your cards….not meaning to be neg but when you date a guy who wants to make a career out of the service it just doesnt work out well especially now at your age… so i suggest you keep him as a friend and drop the emotional romantic connection cuz you will just fall into a trap of hurt… take it slow and back off…. I know ive been in your situation 3 + years diff when your young just doesn’t work…wait until you’re 18 then everything will be much better…i know…oh how i know.

Good luck!!

Answer #3

as u said wait it out…see if u get over him..and have as much fun as possible……if u cant get over him after a few months..then u’ve got ur answer–u must really care about this guy that doing anything with someone else isn’t enjoyable……when u love someone u gotta give up something u want so that they can be happy….and rite now–ur doing that….u obviusly care about this guy…so wait it out…have fun…..and enjoy the wait(corny..i kno)

Answer #4

I don’t understand how it could affect his career. You’ll be 16, when he is 18, no big deal.

Answer #5

no

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