I always keep in the back of my mind that we will break up

is it a bad thing that whenever I have a boyfriend I always keep in the back of my mind that we will break up even if the relationship is going good? Can that be in excuse for not getting hurt?

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Answer #1

sounds like me.. I really never knew why, but when I did get hurt, it just didn’t hurt as bad.

Answer #2

Yes, but also you seem like by saying that you hope the world will want to prove you wrong and keep you together get me?

Answer #3

it sounds like a defense mechanism… you dont get too involved because you know you’ll break up (you should realise it may be a self fulfilling prophecy, you may be breaking up because you dont get as deeply involved because know you’ll break up…)

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