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Troubled niece :/

Hey guys I have a niece that is 16 (a sophmore), I’m 17(a senior). She lives in colorado I live in a small town in wisconsin. Big difference. She’s my brothers oldest daughter… Well a few months ago her parents had found out that she was having sexx with guys (even strangers) and they had found about 50 used condoms in her room… They think she’s done meth and she has posted nude pictures of herself on the computer. What the heck. She has a good family, and a good life. She is screwing everything up for herself and nobody has a clue why. ??? I want to help her because now I just found out from my mom that she is coming to wisconsin to stay with my older sister for a while so she can get away from the big city before she gets raped or murdered. I want to talk to her and see whats up, how do I go about doing this? Im very trustworthy and I love her, I want her to realize this and that she is a beautiful girl and doesnt need to be doing all of that. How do I help her? Please give me some advice. She thinks she’s so badasss and needs a f-ing lesson in my opinion, sorry I’m a bit annoyed with her stressing out my family for no apparent reason. Please help, thanks in advance.

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Answer #1

Sorry it took me so long to get back to you.

She, may have came from a good family but I believe that it is per pressure from her school/friends that has her doing all of these things that she normally wouldn’t do. She probably feels like she isn’t worth anything…So she does things to make her feel better…All that I would do is listen to her and let her know you are there for her.. But first make sure she trusts you…My sister had some of the same problems…but she didn’t change until she asked her self what she was doing…She told me she thought maybe it was God that asked her this but she isn’t sure.

Like I said before just try and be a friend to her. =)

Please let me know if there is anything else I can help you with…I am here. =)

Answer #2

Just try and be a friend to her be close to her see if she would like to talk to you..If she wants to do that then she will start to be more open..Don’t go right out telling her that she needs to quit if you do that she won’t trust you…I will give more information when I am able to right now isn’t the best time for me.. =)

Answer #3

Okay, thanks Serinaty :]

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