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they should really add a catagory called family/friends

This afternoon I was sitting on my bed in my room withch I share with my sister. My sister is on the bed right across from mine wich is hers. Then my mom walks in yelling “Are these yours.” “Are what mine?” my sister asked. “These birth control pills I found under your bed this morning.” “What those arn’t mine,” my sister yelled. Then my mom and my sister just start yelling at eachoter. I broke the scilence when I said “There mine!” my mom and my sister bolth looked confused. “Why would you need these your gay?” my sister asked in a snotty tone. “Well theres this guy at school I like and I was taking them just in case.” I lied. there was a long silence then my mom sid “Oh sweety,” as she ran over and hugged me(my moms not happy that I’m gay so her reaction was expected)she then handed me the pills. “I’m going to go cook something,” she said as she walked off(she cooks when she’s happy)then I turned to my sister and said “okay where going to have a siriouse talk about these.” I said holding up the pills. You wouldn’t beleave what she said to me “Shut the fuck up little miss perfict. Why don’t you go lick some girls cunt,” then she walked out the room. I just don’t know how to talk to someone who won’t talk to me. If you have any ideas please help.

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Answer #1

ok shes ur sis and the truth is you hav to help her!!!! i share a room with my sis too and i too am gay….well bi my moms dosent no tho…but i no if she did shed be alot like urz my sis is sexually active aswell.exept shes older…but i no that if i had been in your position i wouldhave done the same thing and u no what even if she dosent talk…which is better….make her listen dont accuse her thos try to understand how she feels and remember that her being sexually active is normal…and you will have to deal with it just as you being gay is normal and she has dealt with it the only reason she probablly said that was becuase she was still angry at your mom …and probablly upset that you got off so easyly with something she was just yelled at because of. well i hope i helped and you did the right thing if anything else happend hit me up -v-

Answer #2

hey me again i think Mr-smedheader didn’t anser my question I asked for help on how to talk to my sister not to add a new catagory. I’m not even sure he read anything but the title. so please someone still help me.

Answer #3

Since she won’t talk to you, you should probably go to your mom and tell her you lied about the pills being yours and they actually are your sisters and your worried shes sexually active. Its good shes on the pill though, at least you know shes using protection. Or if telling your mom, for some reason, isn’t an option, then keep trying to talk to her, watch out for her and be there for her.

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