Would you tell your friends and family if you were very sick?

If it were me, I think I would tell my friends and family. And then act like nothing is any different for as long as I possibly could, living life as normal as much as possible. There would be a few things I would want to do of course, but otherwise just do what I did before - I can’t see any sense in moping round home for ages feeling sorry for myself. But I would tell my friends and family as soon as I knew, because they need as much time as possible to come to terms with it and deal with it, and I care about them that much - and I’d want them there with me at the end, as opposed to them hating my guts and being somewhere else. But each person would deal with the situation in their own way. Hopefully, for most of us it is something we won’t have to think about or deal with for a long time to come.

Overit:

Thank you for answering my question. I don’t think that pushing people away and trying to make them hate you would be the best idea…if you think about they would be pretty upset that with your time spent here you choose to be so rude…and it would just hurt the people you love and care about more…and plus you being sick would hurt then enough any way why just add on to it. I do apresheatie the answer though and time that you placed into it. The thing about love is that when you really love some one it is for who they are not what they do and then even when they are really rude and mean you still love them even when they are wrong and I just don’t think that would help that is just me though. And I never said any oen was going to die that has not been determinded yet and is really up to GOd.