How can I stop thinking about suicide for my Mom's sake?

yes, suicide is a very selfish thing. hurts and confuses everyone youve ever known when you feel nothing. I’ve been depressed and suicidal before, but it has come to pass, and you are very young so I think you should ride it out. try to be happy. choose to be happy. the weird thing about depression is beyond circumstance it is a choice, it may not seem that way but it really is. somtiems were so upset we choose to let that take over and we ignore thigns that would make us happy because we dont want to be happy. I say decide to be happy. because the power lies within. find somthin you like. maybe you should tell your mother how you feel if you think she will be understanding. im sure she could help more than any of us. life is a roller coaster and you have to go down before you can go back up. it will balance itself out. be patient. what is it that makes you so upset? maybe if you could get out and find things you enjoy and love, or make new friends whom you can relate to it will help.

first thing is you tell your mother what you feel?u are her part ,so she can understand much better than us.be a strong man.I m sure after 5-6 years you will laugh at past . think positive .share with mother ,father and your friends.they need u .

I’m suicidal too, so I understand what you’re going through. the only reason I haven’t tried is cause I think of the ones I’ll leave to deal with it. my parents esp’. I think of how devasted they would be. I know it’s hard to be strong, but contact if you need to chat.

What do you find unbearable about life? What makes you want to commit suicide? I’m sure the answers above that mention selfishness and going to hell are quite unhelpful… But what is it about your life that would make you want to die? Is there anything you can add, take away, or change that will make a difference to you?

I’ve thought about suicide myself before but like Raburt said its selfish. Anyway your 14 you still have your whole life ahead of you. Dont throw it away like that things might become better in the future.

Also Kathyrh I respect that your religious and all but do not push your faith on someone. You can’t tell someone he is going to hell just because thats what you belief..

Hey email me about your problems and stuff…I’m here to listen and trust me I’ve been through some pretty rubish stuff in my life so chances are I will know how you feel! And I know how unhelpful it is people telling you that suicide is wrong and selfish and all this because it just makes you feel worse about yourself! But yeah email me if you need someone to talk to Hope this helped hunni, please don’t kill yourself! x

listen suicide is wrong you will really go to hell if you do that.. listen I kinow that life isnt fair sometimes but if we all wanted to kill our self just cause something didnt go our way that would be wrong for us. life will get better for you go to chruch and serve the lord and he will help you threw anything. life is to good to throw it away. so please think before you do something stupid ok please if you ever need someone to talk with I am here ok…

WHOA,WHOA,WHOA depression is a disease thats like saying anyone with a disease is selfish c’mon now