stepdad saying he won't do anything for my kids?

My second husband says he doesn’t have to do ANYTHING for my children because he isn’t their real father. Is this true? He says that their real father should do for them.He is not very kind to them either.He will only do for his kids only.

Answer #1

Doesn’t seem very nice to me. If I married or was dating someone with children, I would treat them as my own. Children deserve to be cared for by any kind of father figure. I have lots of love to give, maybe that’s the difference.

Answer #2

well if he married you there some what of his kids so he has to take care of them no matter what he was willing to marry you and he also gets your kids so if I were you I would tell him straight up if you dont treat them like your own see ya

Answer #3

Um…you didn’t realize this behavior BEFORE you married him? I would not stand for my child to be treated like a second class citizen. EVER.

Answer #4

ya everyone is right if he married you he should be a man if I would be a stepdad I love those children like if it mine…

Answer #5

I completly agree with louie if you mary someone with kids theryre your kids too and hes a jerk to think he has nothing to do with them if he doesnt care for your kids he obviously doesnt care for you they are a part of you after all

Answer #6

I think hes a jerk it doesnt matter if there his or not he married you therefor he married them he should step up and be a man

Answer #7

You and your children may be better off without this guy in your lives.

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