How can I get rid of my lazy stepdad?

Sounds like you don’t like your step dad, the “Thing”. Did you two have a falling out before you started feeling this way? Just kidding! “Amblessed” gave you the short answer and the correct answer. The longer answer is that, it is not your place to get rid of your mother’s husband and it is not my right or anyone else on this site to tell you how to get rid of your mother’s husband. That would be meddling, not giving sound advice. But I’m sure we all feel and empathize with how you feel and if it’s any consolation, you are not the only step child in a situation like this. Try to remember this if you don’t remember anything else in this life; “its not how someone treats you or talks to you that matters, it’s how you respond to how they treat you or talk to you.” Sometimes it’s better not to respond at all. But if you do respond try to respond with love. Never be hateful!

Talk to your mum, but at the end of the day you can’t get rid of him, its up to your mum to decide whether she wants to stay with him. Is he lazy, or could he be suffering from depression??? Your mum needs to have a word with him.

Good Luck

Talk to him about this or your mom, if she feels strongly about this too, she can get a divorce.