How do I say it to my dad ??please help!

My mum and dad have split up for 3 years now. I have stayed with my dad for that time and I want to move to my mums house cause I just get left to look after his girlfriends daughter while they go up to the room but thats not really the point lol I have had enough of just being shuved to the side and I am always fighting against his girlfriend so I can get some atention and not alkways her she pushes me out the way all the time and my dad dont even bother about it :( I am not being selfish just I have put up with it for 3 years :(. I know people will say just tell your dad how you feel but it is a lot harder and you don’t know what my dad is like he is so hard to get through to and he thinks he is always right and no one else is. He does not want me to stay at my mums and I want to now cause I get on better with my mum. How can I say it to my dad ?? Please help me I really need it :(

Answer #1

just tell him your bouncin because your tired of the chit and you will still stay in contact with him and see him as often as possible. but tell him his new woman and you aint clickin right now so you think its best you bounce.

you dig?

Answer #2

It will be taken to court and I dont want that cause of my dad I have been depressed :( and that has caused me cft (sleeping disorder) and a couldn’t tell my doctor cause he was there :(

Answer #3

There is no particular way other than expressing exactly what is on your mind. Don’t half step tell him exactly how you feel and make sure you two are alone when you talk. Tell him you no longer can put up with it he doesn’t give you attention and you are sick of babysitting his girlfriend’s daughter. Trust I have been the type of person that never spoke my mind and it sets you back a lot in life tell him exactly what you feel and you will get better results. What to tell him doesn’t need to be rehearsed when you get face to face with him everything will flow correctly.

Answer #4

Well I guess I have to wonder why you are with your dad in the first place? Alot depends on the details that you don’t necessarily have to post here. But it’s something you should weigh as to why that decision was made and your decision to want to live with her, now. As for approaching the topic….Girls bond with mom’s and boys tend to bond with dad’s. If he brings up his girlfriend you could then bring up why you aren’t exactly bonding with each other. However, in the worst case scenario if your age posting is correct…you only have another year and your free to make your own decisions.

Answer #5

Oh wow I just realized this post was from 3 years ago….Mute point….:)

Answer #6

Oh wow I just realized this post was from 3 years ago….Mute point….:)

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