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ok im 14 and my boyfriend came over last saturday night and he was suppose to leave before my parents went to bed. he didnt and we fell asleep in my room. in the middle of the night my mom caught me and my boyfriend in my room. he didnt have his shirt on and I didnt have pants on. my mom thought we had sex, we were going to but we didnt. my mom didnt know that we were going to though. but she grounded me. what do you think about her grounding me? and do you think there is anyway I can make her believe me? I need advice so someone help me!

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Answer #1

yeah I don’t think there is anyway of getting out of this.. you broke your mom’s trust and personally I don’t think that a boy should be in your room at the age of 14. and I think your mom had the right to grown you because she did’t know and she was just being a good mother to make sure that you don’t get prego

Answer #2

I dont think theres a way to get outta this one. I would expect to be grounded even if my parents were positive that we didnt have sex. im 18 almost 19 and 5 months pregnant and my parents would still flip out if they caught me with a guy in my room let alone sleeping over. im not gonna lie I’ve snuck my boyfriend over for the night and didnt get caught but if I did id be in big trouble. they cant really ground me anymore now theyd just make my life miserable an maybe kick me outta the house. there probably more angry at the fact you broke the rules and upset/worried about sex. go to them and say that you understand why your in trouble and grounded but you really want them to believe that you werent having sex.

Answer #3

Im 15…wow..u almost had sex..or you wanted to..uhmm for you answer it will b a yes and a no..your mom should believe in u, but at the same time you shouldnt never been alone with your boyfriend. dude I’ve done crazy things with my ex..my mom doesnt knwo that I dated him for a yr and she doesnt let me date. I’ve done wrong things in my life. I don’t know I just felt like saying that because I know where you r going through and theres no one of my frineds that have done this like me

Answer #4

and I also wanted to say your too young to b wit a guy at age 14 trust me..I was 13 and ended up gettign hurt

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