Why do I have to care about him? someone please help me?

So I went out with this guy over the summer best relationship eva, we went out a lot, chilled, had sex ect… (he’s a pretty boy, so of coarse he was sexy, funny, ect…) Only thing is since he so damn sexy he’s a player. So we stoped tlking. He went with this one girl, and then broke up, right away she got another guy so im guessin she was playin him, and I feel bad, because I know I culd give him so much, and I love his everything..now im tlkin to someone else that always has a smile on my face which is great..but no matta who I tlk to my ex is always on my mind. why do people have to cheat..specially to those that can give you everything you wanted and more??? and I know he still likes me 2..I don’t know what to do..I wan to be with him…but I know its not the right thing..but something still holds me back and points me toward him.

Answer #1

sounds like me! I’ve been through the same thing except that I didn’t have sex with the guy but still love him. you know I think that he might have love for you but don’t trust that. if you say he is a player then don’t try to get back with him. he will for certain not be mr. right. you are young so enjoy your life but safely. be respectful to yourself and just get over that guy(your ex). look I wanted to go back with my ex but I eventually found out that he had feelings for another. live your life and then if he never accepts you again. he will soon realize what he lost. come on girl your the best!!

Answer #2

I sooo know how you feel . But I guess it takes time to get over someone you loved [: But you have to alow yourself to move on. You cant just say “Im going to get over him today” and be done with him. No. It takes time. And its gunna suck, but when your finally over him, it’ll be worth it . Trust (:

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