What do soldiers like to come home to from basic training?

(like what do men think is AMAZINGLY sexy?) women willing to touch them while naked that’s it honest to god. men just want touched. loosing weight and trying to get healthy is always a good idea for you. I personally require skinny women not cause i’m evil or anything because that is what i like. truth is he is your husband so either

(A) he is a total loser and your the only woman that would interact with him (B) he already is attracted to you cause, you can’t date people you find repulsive.

second you are always in his thought while at boot camp and anytime he is away for more than 48 hours. As he will always wonder which of his friends or yours your messing around with while he is gone. cause lets face it humans are sexual creatures and 9 weeks of not getting any is fairly silly. and when he is deployed over sea’s for a year nothing in all creation will not have him thinking in the back of his mind how many times you did it with some one. Especially when you lose weight and turn yourself even more attractive to others while he is away. you might be doing it all for him however good chance he wont see it that way. (MEN their funny like that.)

yes i know men are pigs and he will cheat too or some thing else you want to rebuttal against my comments but here it is. in basic camp and the training after the U.S. government gives the men and women a little supplement to disable there junk cause they don’t want ra$e or even mutual relationships during the process of preparing you for either getting shot/ killed or killing others. As for when they are deployed most likely they will be sent to the middle east where if a women gets the chance to get away from her constant escorts they can be stoned to death and if they actually had sex with an American soldier they would have an even more horrible public death Basically weather he wants to or not he only has two real chances to be unfaithful and those are in airports between boarding his next plane for his next destination.

I don’t even know where to begin to talk about John’s question, but anyways.

Show him your love and respect, don’t become a complete slave, but show him that you’re with him 100% on this. This is probably the toughest moment in his and yours life. Working out and loosing weight is a for sure way to surprise him. As for making your love STRONGER? Gee, that’s a tough one, well, I’d start by sitting down and talking it out, like, what’s wrong in the relationship, what you TWO can do TOGETHER to work it out, TOGETHER.

But that’s all I have, god bless.