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Should I trust her?

My wife and I have been togetther for 18 years, married 7 with 2 kids…im the only man she has ever had sex with or oral sex. We were and bed the one night and I told her she had been acting differnt since her trip…we had been to vegas and she was so distant I knew something was wrong…I told her I had a dream she cheated and I sent her a text about it and she replied ‘got way to drunk last night’ after a month she told me that her and a man from work went to her room and made out…kissing,dry humping and that was it…day two they went back to her room and did everything but sex…she gave me every detail I have ask,includeing him having to take care of himself…it has been two months now and we are so good…she did put a lot on the line telling me,kids life and her job…should I trust her and let it go since I know everything…I know she didnt have sex!!!

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Answer #1

well I personally wouldnt care if I’ve been in a relationship for 18yrs!..

its still classifield as cheating!! why would she even consider another guy when she can get it all from you!! unless theres something wrong with you?? and if there is something wrong with you im pretty sure she will do it again… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5years and if he even touched another girl id dump him on the spot!

but thats just me.. I just wouldnt be able to trust someone that much.. like everytime we would do something id remember the moment he/she had with someone else and it would drive me crazy

Answer #2

in my opinion I would say no, because eventually she will be tempted, and do it.

Answer #3

wow … I dont know if I would be able to trust her if I was you. seems like she only told you because she was caught

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