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Should I keep my Mom from seeing her granddaughter?
My mom and I got into a hugh fight bacause she wanted to barrow money and I did’ent have any so she thought I was giving all my money to my boyfriend to gamble. I dont know where she would come up with a thought like that…so anyways after I hung up on her she called me back and i did’ent answer so she left me a voice mail and said…Arlene, ur not my daughter anymore I want nothing to do with you, you can go to hell and rot there I hate you I wish I never had you…it was so hurtful I went to bathroom and cut myself. Then I started thinking when I was little girl she would emotionaly hurt me alot and she would let my step dad always hit me. And she has the balls to call me a few weeks later demanding to see my daughter I said NO! my boyfriend telling me its not right to keep her from her grandma. SO MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I LET HER SEE MY MOM??
Because adults had an arguement and can’t come to terms at this time is NO reason the Grandmother / Grandaughter should be punished by not getting to know one another and having a great relationship - we ALL say things in the heat of the moment that we don’t mean - don’t know why but we often hurt the ones we love the most - Do the right thing: work on your relationship with your Mother and do not punish her or your daughter - you are FAMILY !! - do your part to keep the bonds strong….I wish you all the very best !!
…sometimes I don’t know why people cannot make a decision as personal as this BY THEMSELVES.
By the way, you have a daughter. Aren’t you a little too old to be going to the bathroom to cut yourself? Maybe you should not only let your mother see your baby - you should also let your mother raise her. I have a feeling your child will turn out to be a horrible monster if she stayed with you.
Your mother may not have done a terribly good job raising you, but you’re the one who’s dating a middle-age man, cutting yourself, and spoiling your baby. You’re the one who likes to drink a lot and hates being told what to do.
The next time you’re thinking to have a baby, you should GROW UP first. You’re a horrible parent as you are a horrible daughter.
Dear greeneyes6969, First of all you need to seek out counselling. If you are behaving this way and you have a daughter you are putting her through as much emotional abuse as you were put through. Do you not see this? Your dysfunctional family lifestyle needs to stop now. Your mother can legally take you to court but if you prove that she (your mother) would emotionally abuse your daughter as she did you, she may not be able to see her without her having counselling as well. You are in a position that you could loose your daughter…seek out help now before she takes “you” to court. Sue…good luck
See the fight between you and your mom; don’t include your daughter in it. Your mom still loves you she asked you to bring your daughter because she wants to see you that mean she makes excuse to see you.
I don’t to write long sentence just I want to say it’s no time for hate because the life only come once don’t wasted like that. Sorry if I sad something that you don’t like it and I hope you solve your problem Good luck :)
xiigzag guy hes a looser ..
Maybe so, but xiigzag is not sixteen.
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