Should I keep her out my life for good?

Well im going to start off like this I been having this proablem with my cusion it feels like she want to run my life were the same age and everthing and she always puting me down by trying too make her self better then me and everbody els I dislike her attitude like dont get me wrong me and her are both beautiful people but sometimes I cant stand her. Just because of her lies she the reason why I broke up with my boyfriend who I been with for 8 months ( my first love )

Answer #1

I wouldn’t say keep her out for GOOD

but just avoid her as much as possible :)

Answer #2

You need to accept her the way she is. She cannot make you do anything. She can only be mouthy and voice her opinion. It seems you understand how she is so, when she tells you something decide if you think it is right and if not thank her for her opinion but do what you think is right. If she has an issue with that inform her it is your life and if she doesn’t like it then she can leave.

Answer #3

Maybe you could talk to her and ask why she is acting like this. She may feel the same way about you and it could all be a misunderstanding. Cutting her out completely is a bad idea. She hasn’t really done anything traumatic to ruin your life. You are both still young and are both still trying to find your way in life. Maybe you could avoid her for a while to let her grow up a bit. Putting you down is most likely a form of self-confirmation to make her feel better about herself.

Answer #4

well tell her to take a chill pill..and lay off!!

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