Do you think I have a normal life?

Judy, each of us are fearfully and wonderfully made, very unique. God loves diversity, and it shows up in his creation. With over 6 billion people on planet earth, it is almost beyond comprehension that everyone of us, have a different finger print, and also, a different voice print. So, rejoice in your uniqueness, and know that God loves you more than you can ever imagine, and that he is always on your side, he is in your corner, urging you on, to be the very best you can be. Welcoming your fellowship, at every turn. Talk to him as your best friend, because he is, and he is the only one that will never fail you. Learn his word, seek him in prayer, take time out to thank him for every good and perfect gift that comes into your lives, because it is from him. Get to know him better, it will be worth the effort. Do you have a church with a good youth group? If not, maybe you could seek one out. Your mom was wrong to say what she did, and I am sorry that she did that, we can pray that God will speak to her about that, so that she can understand how it made you feel. Sometimes parents just flip out, I think, and say things totally off the wall. Being able to forgive her and love her anyway, will show maturity on your part, for this is what Jesus asks his followers to do. You might even want to go to her and say, Mom, what you said, hurt my feelings, and it was not supportave at all, but, because Jesus lives in me, I am willing to forgive you, and because I love you, and want things to be good between us. The more you learn things that you are good at, the more it will help you to be self confident, and this is something that you will need your whole life. So, pursure what ever activites make you feel good about your self, and learn to be a friend to your self, if you like you, others will too, if you do not, they won’t either. So, work on liking yourself. Jesus said to love our neighbor as ourselves, so… how are we going to love others, if we don’t first love ourselves? Some bloom early, some later, but, we all bloom at some time, so, watch for the formation of the petals.
God Bless…

Dear JudyMoody100. I know exactly what is wrong. You may not have thought of this. You have ADHD. My daughter is the same way and so was I when I was in school. I just now understood why. ADHD people like my daughter and I have a hard time making friends because we are not open and talkative. This makes people think wierd things of us. When I went to college I started coming out of my shell. You will be fine. As far as the art. My daughter is a master at art at age 8 and I am also very artistic. This is where ADHD is the only blessing. Get a psychologist to help diagnose what is wrong. I bet it’s ADHD or ADD. Attention Deficite Hyperactive Disorder or Attention Deficite Disorder. This keeps you from paying attention and getting those good grades you long for. I and my daughter had those problems. She is taking a 12hour release pill called Concerta 27mg. The dose is different for different ages or levels of ADD and ADHD. Jesus Christ talks through others and He does love you and care about you. He died for you and everyone else not just some people. Keep your chin up, You’re normal. Love, Mama K

Hey there Judymoody100 Well If I were you I would be looking at going to art college when you leave school if you are very good at art. You are worry about to much things and you should focus on one thing at a time. With your depression you should probably get help because it sounds to me that you are suffering from the seperation of your parents. If you want to make more friends you got to be more confident in yourself people like confident people. Find people with the same intertests as you trust me it works.Don’t let people hurt you when they joke about you just laugh it off it may hurt but its not worth getting all worked up on these sort of things. I know it seems easy said than done. With your weight its because you don’t have much control over other aspects of your life and it sounds like you have low self esteem. You should use your height as an advantage some people would kill to be tall!! Try focus on the positive things about yourself more so then the negative things. You are not a loser and don’t think that way about yourself. If your finding it hard at school than maybe you should study you may find methods of studying like listening to music while your studying might help!

Hey never let anybody tell you you cannot do anything escpecailly yourself the first ways of accomplishing your goals is beileving in yourself. School in general is tough and people say hurtful things even if they are joking but you can’t stress the little things in life because then you miss the bigger picture. I know from experience teenagers can be so mean without even knowing it but confidnece is key and I bet if you show how confident you can be they will stop even if you fake it. As for academic some people just struggle with them it’s a fact of life some people just have to work harder trust me I know I study for a good 2 hours a night but hard work pays off. Maybe you are just not learning the right way also.Join a sports team if your tall I suggest volleyball your tall and you will probably love the sport and you amke tons of friends. Anyways you sound like a amazing person with tons of oppertunities don’t bring yourself down just because your struggling with a few things because I bet there are so many other things your good at . Anyways good luck I hope things work out just remeber to be confident and don’t stress it!

Maybe try wearing brighter colors, or if you have your hair in your face. put it up

Great! now peopl are thinkin im some meantal emo!! and I naturally have black hair and I cant change it!!!(besides dying it …but thats not the option my parents would give!!!) and I coincedentally have dull colored clothes…and im too lazy 2 go shopping 4 brighter clothes… …XX

there is no such thing as a normal life. it’s a myth. we all believe a normal life is something without problems and pain but it’s not. without problems we would never be challanged and therefore we could never heal and move on. and without pain we could never feel happiness. hardship IS life.

hey dear some peoble are good at certain fields, and some are not , you are more artistic, you like art, so keep going in it, having high degrees is not the only way to have normal life, you are normal in your way,spend more time on your talent, and about your social life you are just so sensitive,and that is not bad ,the only bad thing is that it effects on your social life ,so deal with yourself and be sure that not every joke is on you,and try not to take it seriously the next time, instead of that laugh with them, and don’t pay so much attention to your weight, as long as you are healthy don’t worry about, the real beauty is deep inside your soul and thats all what really matters,chin up sweetie, have fun ,good luck.

You are not a loser - Jesus Christ would not have died on the cross for a loser - He will never forsake you if you’re saved, you are His - it is we who change with our wild fluctuations in faith, attitude, etc. - He always remains the the same, ‘the rock’ - it’s very possible His answer is not no, but not yet - look around you at your many blessings - You are valuable…I’ll send you some weight info…Hope this helps !!

hey hun, it’s ok. if you keep thinking like this, who know what could happen. prove them wrong, study hard, work hard, be whoever you want to be. become a lawyer or something, and have a great life. don’t listen to those who make fun of u, make fun of them… make a few new friends at school, get a new hair cut or do something to make them notice u. I know you can. you are not a looser no one is a looser!!! your not the first one to get picked on either… so don’t feel liker your alone hope I helped… keep smiling!!!

you use to sound like me. Trust me Im struggling to.I can help you. :) Just enjoy your life, god made you for a reason, concentrate on studying, (sounds boring) I know. But it will help. Dont let people get on your way. Maybe try wearing brighter colors, or if you have your hair in your face. put it up, youll look more friendly :D

hope my advice helped

p.s- Live life like theres no tommorow :D

cheer up judy… your not mental! your a kind, nice, friendly girl. and if your quiet and into music and arts, more power to ya! WOOT!

your depressed. thats whats wrong. and you probboly have autism.

don’t listen to those who make fun of u, make fun of them…

lol