Should I have to feel like this?

Your auntie and uncle are being completely out of order- who are they to continously make you feel bad by comparing you with your ‘perfect’ cousin? It sounds like you’re really upset about it, and they should be there to support you and make you feel good about yourself, espeically as you’re going through your teens. What exactly is so great about your cousin? It’s a little bit worrying that they’re comparing your bra size to hers. Why would your uncle comment on this? It really is pathetic that they’re boasting that her breasts are bigger than yours- when, as you said, she’s probably just stufing her bra anyway. Is she a nice person? She must have flaws. It sounds like her parents are placing their ‘wonderful’ child on a pedestool. I doubt she’s really as perfect as they make out. Maybe they’ve got problems with her at home or school, and their trying to cover it up. Even if her eyelashes are long, and her breasts are big and she is pretty, at the end of the day what does this mean? When she grows up she’ll probably think the world of herself, and a lot of people won’t like this. I doubt many people appreciate her parents boasting about her all the time. So, if this goes on just say to your auntie/uncle ‘To be honest, I’m glad I’m nothing like your daughter. It really is pathetic the way you talk about her. Have you even heard yourself? You’re maknig everyone feel sick’ If your’e worried about saying this, next itme your with them, make yourself look really good, act confident, smile, look happy and act distant from your aunt/uncle/cousin. Make them feel put down. And don’t let the competing go on any further.